I've been very curious to talk to a medium! I didn't used to even believe that they were real, but a lot of the experiences I've had with dreams and psychedelics have definitely shifted my thinking there. I try not to speak with any certainty about those conversations I had with Jacob because I know how that might be received. But I know what I saw.
I feel the same way about the dog of my childhood. I still frequently spend time with her in my dreams, and each time that I do, it feels impossible to deny that it's really her.
Dreams have actually been one of my favorite subjects to write about on Medium! I've published over 50 articles on the subject. Here's one I wrote on Jacob if you're at all curious. Like you said though, please feel no obligation!
https://medium.com/3-minutes/no-longer-here-84450089303a
Thanks again for the thoughtful response. Hugs!